Monthly archives: January, 2018

Did you have “the surgery”?

Which surgery? There’s a number of surgeries on a number of areas of the body that trans folk seek out. However, examine why you’re asking in the first place. Are you close enough to the person that you may be a care taker, should they have any surgery? Are you interested in or currently dating …

You’re so brave

Brave for what? Being out? Being an activist? Fighting off the forces of Rita Repulsa? This comes from a good place, and I typically respond with a “thank you” or such if I’m not willing to spend the time discussing the nuance of this. Yes, being out and trans can be dangerous and certainly presents …

Normalization

Merriam-Webster defines normalize as: to make conform to or reduce to a norm or standard to makeĀ normalĀ (as by a transformation of variables) to bring or restore to a normal condition I decided to register transnormative.org and start blogging again as a process of normalization. Through making writing a normal part of my life, I hope …